DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support 2

[ScaredinCanada]

Scared,

Can I be honest? I was a bit taken aback by what your parents said also. But I'm not there, I don't have a clue about the situation and yes, it's likely that she is enjoying taking shots.

But for her to make moral judgments right now is pretty funny. Perhaps you should go get her a mirror? What would I do? Ignore her. It's not her concern what your parents do. And I especially wouldn't be worried about her judgments at the moment. It really isn't worth a response because all it would do is get you in an argument. Our job is to diffuse the situation not elevate it. So that's what you'll need to do right now.

Take care of yourself. I'm praying for you.

LIS

Thanks LIS.

I have mixed emotions about it (what else is new).

I'm not going to argue about it, my W is welcome to her opinion. I just think she wants to take shots at them when she can.

Ya I agree about the moral judgements, I wanted to call her out on that so bad. A few months ago I would have, but not anymore. I'm detaching like crazy and diffusing the sitch.

Thanks for your support.

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SIC