Denver-I hope you are feeling better today and are back in full DB mode.
TG is telling you like it is. I have always liked his candor. I personally don't want people to tell me what I want to hear. I'd rather have people be honest, tell it like it is and call me out when I backslide. It keeps me on my toes with all this progress!!!! And we all backslide - we will always be works in progress but just think how far ahead we are of our WAS.
You have made such incredible progress. Like TG said, now comes the tough part. The rollercoaster is full swing!! You know not to expect anything from our S at this juncture. They need to get to where we are in their own way and in their own time. Will they get there? I genuinely think so. When? Perhaps when it's too late for them just as they said to us when they left that our recognition came too late. Karma is a B!tch!!!!
You started to pursue a little bit by keep saying come over, come over. She heard you the first time trust me and you threw it back in her court. If she decides not to come, be gracious and hold your head high. Why? Because YOU have done the work, keep doing the work in making the committment to change. Where is she? STUCK!!!!
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11