Well I've had to watch posts all week on Facebook about my H's trip this weekend. I've not brought the subject up to any of our mutual friends just in case they inform him that I've inquired about it.

We also had to exchange emails all day yesterday because he's working on a website for me that he committed to before our split. He's been keeping his end of the bargain on that. It was odd, we were talking like client/customer and it made me sad to think that after 9 years this is what our life together has come to.

He messaged me today that he was going by the house to grab a travel bag. I never mentioned his trip nor did I say have a good time.. I'm not sure how to approach it, do I wish him a good trip or let him think that I'm not bothered in the least although it's killing me ?

Me-41 H-34
T-9
M-8
10/21/10-BOMB
11/01/10-H moves out
01/27/12-H files

"Good memories tell you that your past was worth it, bad ones tell you that you were strong enough to go on"