H has decided not to drive a uhaul back with the last of his parents' things. He's arranged for a moving company to pick them up. Today, he emailed and asked what I thought of flying down to close on the house. "I promise to be a good boy", he said, laid out his itenerary, and then "I don't think its a good idea to leave son alone with the house and the dogs." I called and said to book the flight. Then sent an email "I do not check up on you. I trust that you will treat me fairly, and be open and honest with me at all times. I believe what you tell me, and trust that I have nothing to be concerned about when I'm not with you. I still haven't been able to put everything from the past year behind me, but am working on it, and trust you will tell me what I need to know." I guess when I get restless, he gets nervous about what I'm thinking.
Kim, you have a very open H, willing to share alot with you, so take the time to make lots of good memoreis to outweigh the bad.
