Lotus, yeah, we've fallen away from doing the dialoguing which is too bad. Part of that is my fault (as most things in M, have to share the blame) as I wasn't sure if I wanted to start doing this if I was going to move out and go dark. W has made a few comments hinting that she's having second thoughts about the move. If it looks like the move may be postponed or canceled, I'll bring up doing the dialoguing again. I found a link from the Retrouvaille site with literally thousands of dialog topics, more than enough to last the rest of our lives!
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011