Sounds like you are doing alright. I suspect you both learned something about communicating at the Retrouvaille weekend, because you seem to be treating each other with a lot of caring and understanding. I think patience is your best tactic here. Keep using what you learned at Retrouvaille. I wouldn't recommend LRT unless you need to do it. I'm sure you see that you can't do both. But if you have been having good, caring communication, and you go into LRT, then she will be bound to notice. So, I guess the best thing is to follow her lead. If she wants to talk, then talk. You are much better off with caring communication than with no communication.
