It's wishful thinking to expect both spouses to walk into Retrouvaille with enthusiasm. There's almost always one spouse who worked pretty hard to get the other spouse to go. Sometimes it pays off, and sometimes it doesn't. But the couple that walks in the door and spends the weekend, listening to what they have to say, and doing the exercises the way they teach you to do them, has a 50% chance of healing their marriage. It is worth the effort to try to get a spouse to go.
