Wow, guys you are so right. I gave the space today and really just supported her.
She came home from work (12 hour shift at hospital) and was in a surprisingly great mood. I was reading to the kids and she jumped behind me and gave a huge hug! Shock-ed was me for sure.
We all hung for a little and then her and I just chatted in the bedroom. I wanted to give her space but she was really chatty and I just chilled. I kept trying to leave but she wouldn't let me.
Finally I went to leave the room and she says, "Hey, you can come kiss me."
I nearly fell over myself to go kiss her. I mean, it was a small peck on the lips but still. I had no expectations and look what happens?!
She then thanked me for all of the work that I did today for the move. I told her that I believed in her and that things were going to work out great. She had this glow about her.
Every day, guys. Every day. Work work WORK! I feel great right now and had to share.
I hope it gives you all hope that with some tough work, it can work out.
My neighbor, whom I confide in quite a bit, told me that he's very proud of me for sticking this out. I told him, I ain't done yet
We're never done!!
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
