Islander, I just noticed something interesting. Your W and my W dropped the ILYBNILWY on the exact same day (10/25/10). I guess it didn't matter to my W that that day happened to be my 39th birthday...
Look, don't confront the OM. It will make things worse. You have nothing to gain and a ton to lose. This will only anger your W and put you in a bad light. Just try to let him go for now. Yes, this dude is a piece of trash that should taken out like garbage. Who in their right mind would go after another man's W??? But, I guess not all of us had a good upbringing like you and I did where we were taught right from wrong.
Hang in there, buddy!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
