Shaves,
I was away for a time, but I see you are still doing great. Very happy to see that. Mistakes are a mf'er because they come nicely packaged with regret. But a wise man once told me the following: "Good people don't make bad decisions on purpose. They make the best decision they can with the information they have at that moment. If it turns out to be a bad decision, they should not feel ashamed. They did the best they could with what they had at that time."

Pretty cool, huh? Just think about that the next time you start to focus on your mistakes with your W and M. Then turn your mind to the fact that you will do better the next time around because you have grown as a person.

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...