Navy,
Listen to the wisdom being put out here. This visit should be about your children. You and your W may not make it, but your kids will ALWAYS love you no matter what. They will never fall out of love with you or find another man to be there father. Go, wrap yourself in their love. Let their good vibes guide you while you are there. I think you will find that you will pull through and your W will see a new man she hasn't seen before.

Please keep us posted.

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...