Dixie, Sweetheart, STAY DARK!!!! Yes, it will be hard. I had to do it for almost two months. It was very, very hard. I wouldn't lie to you. But, your H has a real problem with respect and how he treats you. Don't get mad at me, but I don't like it. I don't like it one bit. You have been really cool here and you don't deserve to be treated this way. You need to make him face that you are getting tired of being his "insurance policy" and you are ready to start standing up for yourself. Do it! Tonight I was bestowed the title of "Captain of the BITS" by 2step. My first official act as captain is to order you to stay dark and think of Dixie FIRST. Got it, soldier?
You have some many great friends here that will provide you with support and love. Take this and wrap yourself in it. Stay strong! If he doesn't have to face the music, he will never face reality.
Stay warm, wrap those pipes and keep your head up!!
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
