Bolt, I second that notion. If she wants time, give it to her. What she said to you today was from the heart and not all bad. She could have said, "I am done, we are done, I am leaving you." Instead she still thinks enough of you and your M to acknowledge her issues and tell you what they are. Good sign, I think. Just keep doing what you are doing. Be careful with the ultimatums though. They can back fire. Take it from a guy who played with that fire and got burned...

Keep it coming.

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...