I swear, sometimes I think you, me, Denver and MJ are all married to the same woman. The stuff that comes out of our W's pie-holes' is word-for-word the exact same stuff that my W has used over and over again.
Here is an interesting nugget to ponder. OK, your W got on the call today. Good news, definitely. I am very stoked you got her there. I have not been so lucky. But, she was there, very cool! But, think about this for a second. When she left, she said this stuff. When you talked weeks ago, she said this stuff. Today on the call, she said the same stuff. Now, here is my point... Guess who didn't just repeat the same old stuff??? YOU, MY MAN! She is definitely still stuck. But, you have moved on to a new realm and you should be proud. She is a typical WAS. They have one plan, one speech and a one-tracked mind. Frankly, I am starting to feel sad for them. But, not you, my friend. You are getting better. You are getting stronger. You are getting a handle on your emotions. Very, very cool!!! I am very proud of you!
Funny thought. They leave us and we run out and buy DR and do what we do. When I see how often their scripts match, I do wonder sometime if there is a "Divorce Supercharger" book out there that all WAS's read.
My W is still pulling her same crap. Acting like all is well, loving her new life, loving her new apartment, everything. But she doesn't know one very important thing. I have been out there interviewing other WAS's and they have all told me the same thing... She is full of sh*t and is acting her *ss off right now. Do you think any of our S's have taken the time to interview any LBS's??? Probably not.
Sleep well tonight, buddy! You have had a good day!
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
