You know FOBD I've been having some similiar situations. Not to the degree of Bev's but people who know my H left find some weird comfort in telling me that they hvae problems w/in their own M and ask if I can recommend some books and/or ask me for advice.

It does really make you feel good and it keeps our knowledge going. We all really have indeed learned something and continue to represent ourselves better everyday. WE ROCK!


BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11