I was wondering how the party went. I remember you posting about it last year...and it was not a very good time in your life. Just compare then to now and realize how far you have come, not only in your M, but also the confidence and strength you have gained in yourself.
On the negative side, H is not making overtures toward me. I'm the one to invite him to lunch, I'm the one to say ILY, etc. Did H do those things before the crisis? If so, then bring it to his attention that he is not doing them now. For a year now, you have bent over backwards to please H and not create waves. Maybe he has gotten so used to taking you for granted that he doesn't realize he is not showing you any small acts of a good R.
