Then it is time to reclaim that memory... go to the party, be beautiful and charming, have fun. Don't let your mind go to last year, think of good things. Think of good things with your H. Let it be a good evening. You did not die, you survived and continue to survive and thrive. What a wonderfully strong woman you are.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
