You did good. The only thing I would say is that you shouldn't have contacted the X. If your H is the one that contacts her, then HE needs to be told that boundary.
He is the one who keeps breaking it, so this comes down to you and he.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.