Ok, seriously, I about fell off my chair laughing about the shovel. You're IL's are the BEST!!!!!
Wanda, go slowly. You are in a perfect position right now to send this down the right path, choose your steps carefully. This can be on your terms and make sure that it is on your terms. You are sooooooooooooooooo worth it.
Did I mention about the shovel??? Cracks me up.
This is going to be so good for you. You are such a strong woman and I have so much respect. MAKE SURE YOU RESPECT YOURSELF.
My prayers are with you. And sweetie, take care of that flu!!!