A Lovestruck Romeo Singing the Streets in Serenade

[Truegritter]

will she want to put herself back into a situation where those wounds were inflicted?

And will you want to put yourself back into a situation where wounds were inflicted?

As LBS's we start out focusing so much on what we did wrong.

How to change

How to convince our S we can do better

That it will be better.

Comes a day when you stop so much of that and then take a real hard look at your S. At your M and know what you want from both.

But initially...

We chase that which runs away from us.

Part of the LBS journey.

You want back what was ripped away from you.

The change? comes when you stop hanging on her every word or watching everything she does for signs of the hope.

That she wants you back.

And you WILL stop it when you are ready.

Then the REAL part for YOU begins.

I think J3B was trying to hint to that.

It's all you right now and it takes two.

Where is your energy better spent?