Doing "eh" is better than crappy. I just want you to feel better about YOU!
I can't argue with the boys. I'm sure you feel that if you pull back a little more you are afraid he will take it as rejection and that will solidify his decision to leave even more. But WE who are getting more healthy and strong by the day, know that's not true.
Play a little hard to get; don't be so readily avail after all, YOU come first especially now.
Peace and Hugs to my fellow Bidet!
BITS
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11