Chapter 3 the end? Or new beginning?

[zengypsy]

2, Hope you are feeling better today and just caught up with your sitch.

I am VERY impressed by your DB Coaching Session. I can see alot of my H's responses to me in your W's. It's funny how we all share some of the same.

I love Michelle's insight: I can't remember where the 4 phases are listed on this site, but they are: reducing negative emotions; building friendship; rekindling romance; and recommitment. You can't jump straight to recommitment, and I LOVE your comment about how you aren't sure you would want her to come running back RIGHT NOW if she called. That's a very healthy attitude.

I've said this many times; reconnection before reconcilation. If we all juust jump back in and we'd be doing more of the same which didn't work and we all have worked SO hard to make these changes.

That comment must have been hard for you to say to her, but impressive.

Overall FAB job 2 - I can learn a thing or 2 from you and the BITS!