I would let Gabe know that it is important for you that he take that one night off and why. Some guys might just see the whole situation as we need the money and not see the value of taking the time away from work.
I told myself when I get married again I am going to really work on communication. It isn't that we didn't talk but things that obviously didn't get said or (get the point here Mish)he thought he already knew my reactions or answer, so he didn't bother to bring it up. Sounds familiar huh? Ex was basing his thought to what I might say off of something I might have said previously. Well people do grow you know. If they didn't what would be the point?
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory