I'm so happy that your baby cat is doing better today. I got so emotional when I read that. When my H 1st left in 2006. Our Lab was very old and when she passed in 2007. It almost killed me. I got so sick from not eating/sleeping/grieving over her that I had a seziure!!! So, please please...take care of yourself!!!
Like 2step, I took off for about a week and went to see some old friends in another state. So, I could feel loved and taken care of. I love the outdoors. So, I fished and took long walks through the country....my friends just sat and listened w/no judgement! God love them!
I understand the finance part too...Ive been there...I had to make some tough choices too. But, I went to one of my best girlfriendsher H who is sharp w/finances and she guided me. Normally, Im sharp...but, I couldnt think straight it was all to much..So, if you have someone like that, go bounce things off them or come here! We will help ya....
I know your getting beat up on right now....but, you open that bible and lay down your worries friend. Cause, you can't do it alone...Don't forget you have all of us too!!!
I do wish we could all get together someday...I would cook us up a huge Southern Meal, We'd get some "Texas Outlaw" Live music going and sit around the lake and tell our war stories....
Love & Blessing to you Lis!!!
Dixie
Me: 40 H: 39 M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs No kids Seperated: May 18, 2006 EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving. 2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010