Yes, Kim, we are. And as individuals, a number of people (read this Wishing), are better and stronger, and I feel empowered for having met you at this BB. Good night with H. He was late getting home from the work christmas party he was at. Told me last night about it, said it was across town, and expected traffic to be a bear. As it past 8:00, with no word, Paranoid Kelli got into the act. I called his cell, and no answer. (Somehow he never answers when I call). A few minutes later, he called. On his way home. Met a guy he knew 10 years ago, went for a few beers. Calmly told him it would have been nice if you had called. He said "You're mad." "No I'm not", I replied. "Okay, you're disappointed." "Yes, I am, but I'm over being mad." Ended up he got home, apologized again, and we had a great night. No eggshells in sight. Patience pays off... P.S. I'm even getting so open minded I like my 14 year old son's music.