Is it normal for a WAW to abandon anyone that doesnt agree with what she is doing? Her twin sister used to be her closest friend, unfortunately closer than we were as husband and wife. I trust my sister in law as well, always have. I have never gotton in the way of their friendship. My wife doesnt even talk to her anymore unless she needs a place to stay or a ride for the kids. They arent close at all since my wife dropped the bomb. My sister in law feels extremely left out and confused. Says "she has changed alot". Is this a sign of any sort? My wife gives her twin and me the same stories and alibies for her actions. Maybe they aren't allibies but they are just the truth. i just don't know. Her behavior is just so out of character. I am having a weak few minutes here, been reading alot and it has stirred my mind up.