Originally Posted By: what next?
But you know... that's the really frustrating part. I have felt for a long time that she needed to see this through before she would really start to deal with it but she kept letting it drag out. So frustrating.


When my W dropped the D bomb on 01/03 i was in the same boat as you. I so badly wanted to tell her about this site and for her to read it. But if she is a WAW, right now she is looking for any reason for her to justify her leaving you. At the end of the day your W should realize that you were the best catch she could find. my D is also going full swing. We might finalize it at beginning of March. So don't think you are alone in this. The D is over the day you decide to move on. Until then D is just a piece of paper...Hang in there man.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...