Another POV....and I will also use children here as an example.
When you love a child, even if it hurts, you have to let them go so that they can learn. Hovering over them, protecting them, controlling them will not make them grow into mature adults who can survive in this world.
In many ways our WAS are like children, so we have to let them go, set them free to find themselves. If they find their true selves, and we are part of them, as we all believe we are, they will come back.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
