Originally Posted By: lostinscared

You have absolutely taken the high road for which you need to be extremely proud. I don't think that would have been my initial reaction, but your reaction was exactly right. You are very strong.

I often tell people that hope is from within. You cannot look outside of yourself for hope because only you are in the situation. However, as you have rightly pointed out, there is a lot of hope if she is seeking therapy and has left the door open to you.

Ultimately, you want your W. So if you don't fight, you will be hurt worse. But you have to fight smart. I have failed at doing this so many times. Please learn everything you can so you don't make my mistakes.

You are going to be ok, Sparks! You really are. I pray for you.


Thank you so much! I am glad my newbie posting skills have been fixed, because this is just the sort of advice/encouragement I have been looking for. Thank you for your prayers!


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated