It really struck me when I first read the lines WAS says - like a script .... and that's when I realized that I am not alone in dealing with this.
Even the WAS themselves realize it sometimes - in my sitch, my H went from blaming me for everything, then saying he never loved me, then saying he did love me but now doesn't love me, to saying its all his fault, that all his blaming was a justification (big of him!)
And one day (2 weeks ago) he even told me he did not know what he was saying.
CONFUSION = MLC = DO NOT BELIEVE THEM!!!!
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go