Well, another day, more lies. I don't get why she still denies she's now with OM. (I'm not asking either, she'll just say she's one place, when I know for a fact she's with him) After all she's moved out and want's D, why continue to deny? Can anyone explain that one to me.

She's become so irresponsible, selfish and dishonest. The complete opposite of what she's always been.

I feel like I've become convenient 'babysitter' for when she wants to go out. How do I become 'more attractive' when I feel like Ive been completely betrayed? The OM is a loser, chews tobacco, missing teeth, and also has no job, hence why he was in medical assisting school.

The hardest part is I still have to deal with her on almost a daily basis because of our kids, its like torture. If I didnt have to talk to her or see her anymore, this would be a lot easier.

my 2 cents for today....


Me 44
H 39
Met in 1998
Married in 2004
D 5, twins
Bomb - May 16th, 2010

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