Sparks,

Your family and friends are going to want you not to hurt. Their advice is going to be geared to the "Pull the bandage off quickly" pull the trigger and move on approach.
Hurts alot but over quick.

You're not naive.

Tell them you need their support in your decision to be married, and if they cannot help you in that, then you'll need to figure out who will when you need support.

Quote:

I think our marriage can be rebuilt even stronger.


It can.



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