Less Scared and Less Alone

[Denver_2010]

LIS -We all completely understand. But, you need to take a step back, take a deep breath, and let yourself calm down.

Your patience and resolve is being tested right now. That is all. Divorce papers have not been filed, no lawyers have been retained, no judges have slammed their gavels down on the finality of your M.

Your H is just choosing to physically separate right now. This is not the end. Far from it in my opinion. I agree with something 2Step said to you last night... this is when the true DBing begins.

Your H is on a journey. He has chosen a path that does NOT include you RIGHT NOW. He must go down this path. You have no choice but to let him, and honestly, he really has no control over it either. This is something that he needs to do for his own quest for happiness in life. EVENTUALLY, there will be a fork in that path... one direction will lead him down a path back to you... the other will lead him down a path to the unknown. Only he can can decide which path to choose. You must allow him this. But you control whether or not the path back to you remains open or closed. That is all that you control with your H's present journey.

BITS
Denver