Sorry Next. I know that this is not what you want to be hearing.
This D may have to go all the way through before your W can focus on anything else. Again, I know that this is not something you want to hear. But remember, D is not the end unless you decide it is.
In my opinion, I would simply respond: "sounds good. let me know."
Nothing you say is going to make a difference in how your W is feeling RIGHT NOW. Thus, silence is probably your best bet.
Again... just my opinion. I'd also get Bond's thoughts on this before you do anything.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce