hope you love her, cause you're stuck with her now

[MichelleLT]

Well, talked to xSIL yesterday. Had a very nice long chat and put a lot of stuff out there.

She has not talked to XH about the wedding specifically. But he as recently as a couple months ago was still being immature and manipulative in regards to me. He sent xMIL an e-mail telling her that she shouldn't talk to me and invite me to things. xSIL only knows about this cuz xFIL told her, xMIL has said nothing to anyone else. xFIL and xSIL are pissed because XH is using her fear that he will stop talking to her against her to get what he wants. It's sorta worked - I haven't really heard from her, although I did get an e-Christmas card.

I told xSIL that I appreciate the position she's in, that I know she doesn't want to deal with drama, just wants to enjoy her day, that I don't want to cause her any issues. That no matter what I would not hold it against her.

She decided XH can suck it up. There's gonna be like 130 people there, he's a groomsman so he'll be sitting at the head table and doing his own thing and I can avoid him and vice versa. So, if I can get the day off from drill, I am invited.