after a little more than a year i am back

[Denver_2010]

grr - I hope that you don't mind me saying this, but I think that you are being way too accommodating to your H right now. Don't forget, he is planning on leaving you. Don't let him continue to have the advantage of having a W while at the same time, plan his escape. I'm saying this, bc I also get the sense that there is still love for you within him. At least the way that you describe these conversations. But you are letting his pleasantness towards you to allow him to stay in control. You have to let go a little.. or actually, a lot. I would tell you to stop talking to him so much. Let him miss you. If he wants to check on your mom, he can call her. If you're getting stuff for his dad, call his dad. Get my drift. He needs to MISS YOU! Right now, he still has a W waiting at home for him...

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Denver