ABSOLUTELY 1Step!!!! You have been giving her the space and time to settle down, get past some negative feelings, and really think about what she wants for her life. This is what happens, sometimes, when you pull back and take away the pressure and pursuit. I think that this is just great!

Keep doing WHAT WORKS... that means keep doing what you have been. Let her continue to come around.

2Step... those are just fantastic words of wisdom that you posted here. Thank you.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce