While not strictly DBing, I do believe that sometimes those things HAVE to be said, for ourselves.
And when I did something similar and pointed out how I thought I failed at DBing...my friends here pointed out that what I did was set up for a real LRT.
I am sorry for your pain. I am glad that you stood up for yourself, you spoke your mind, now is the time to leave him be, to dwell on it, and in it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK