I do not think anything was said with the intent to hurt or harm, nor do I think anything was said with judgement in mind.
But that could escalate.
If something is said that is untrue, it should have no affect upon you. No offense to Creed, but she is a faceless voice to you Sunshine. If there is no merit in her words, then let them be like water off a duck's back.
If her words sting, then she said something that bothers you about yourself.
But I doubt she pushed that button knowing it would do so.
We owe it to ourselves to evalaute those comments that 'sting' us and figure out why.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
