Quote: In fact, that was one othe things he said OW did for him, was discuss feelings
His idea of "discussing feelings" may not be what you and I think of as really discussing feelings. It might have been something brief and/or not all that deep.
How are things going on other fronts - as in other conversations between you and H?
We were just visiting the topic of conversing with a relationsip-topic-shy spouse over in my neck of the woods.