Originally Posted By: Truegritter

Can your love for your W encompass letting her go right now?

Without anger or resentment?



Brutally honestly.....

Actually, I would have anger and resentment if she stayed and continued her EA.

And I'll probably also have anger and resentment if she goes and takes her income and my child support with her.

The second scenario is of course the lesser of two evils.

In order for me to give her what she wants (out of the M and out of the cage) she has to get away from me, not just legally, but physically.


Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."