I truly am sorry I offended you Sun. I do know boundaries, as a matter of fact..and I consider myself a Christian also. None of us are perfect, and at times boundaries can be blurred or over-stepped. You've set up boundaries in this new relationship...noone else. In the end, your decisions now affect the future ahead. It is your life to live. No one elses.

Oh by the way...I got over my anger years ago. Only sparks up somewhat when I see the impact it has made on our adult sons, but I handle that well with Gods help...thank you.

I come here and read a few posts occasionally, and hardly post anymore. More or less checking up to see how others are doing. I posted on your thread because I remembered well the struggles you had to face, like the rest of us. My intention was not to butt in to a thread addressed only to HB. My idea of this forum was that if someone posted, it was open to anyone to post a suggestion/support/opinion on the matter brought up.

This last posting from you has taught me a lesson.

Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible