One point I forgot to mention, after the DB session I told my W
M "You are a good woman. You put up with a lot"
W "I know I was a good woman. You didn't"
M "Well I always said I was a lucky guy and you were a good W and a great woman. There is a difference between telling you this and actually knowing why I believe this. The difference is now I KNOW why you were a good woman and a GREAT W before I just felt like you were, but now I understand the feeling behind the comment"
W "I just wanted you to acknowledge that and you never did."
I figured I would add that part. Felt it was important
