When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[AliSuddenly]

I was thinking about you yesterday... I think you should 'reverse engineer' this sitch/R. You know how BEFORE someone leaves, a WAS, or H with an A, they go all distant and you fear they are having an A, or may leave etc...

and what does DBing advise? Find yourself. GAL. Get a new hairdo/clothes, make them notice and wonder about you again - non verbal communication etc.

What can you do to break this stalemate/rut? What can yuo do to make Gabe sit up, take notice and realise what he HAS?

- Start wearing your/a new perfume to the shops/work without
mentioning it.
- Cut and colour your hair, or grow it long, wear it in a new style
- Go out once a week without him.. and not to bible study, thats not going to make him jealous or wonder about you!
- You were talking before about weight loss/fitness etc.. are you still doing that? How about really trying to if you havent lately?
- Switch the tele off and start listenig to music, dance round the room now and then
- Laugh more, worry/frown less
- Arrange some fun night out with your girlfriends
- arrange a 'date night' with Gabe?

Dont do as he does Mish.. do as you want to do, regardless of his reaction.

Just brainstorming here hun