W is clearly in conflict with her own emotions but I think you handled it well. Look this is a struggle and getting past this (nothing last forever) is the toughest part of any marriage.
"Welcome to the real world of M. In this world, a look can hurt and a word can crush. What happened to the in-love experience? Alas, it was but an illusion by which we were tricked into signing our names on the dotten line, for better or for worse. Did we really have the "real" thing? I think so. The problem was faulty information.
Some couples believe that the end of the in-love experience means they have only two options:resign themselves to a life of misery with their spouse, or jump ship and try again.
We can recognize the in-love experience for what it was- a temporary emotional high-and now pursue "real love" with our spouse. That kind of love is emotional in nature but not obsessional. It is a love that unites reason and emotion. It involves an act of the will and requires descipline, and it recognizes the need for personal growth"
I thought it was a good message to pass on. Hope you like it
