I got an email from her about an hour later. The C told her to do that so she could communicate without my interference. I have a pretty good way with words and sometimes she feels inferior to me (I have no idea why but she does - I have NEVER been condescending to her - at least in my mind).
This describes the communication between my W and I to a T. I have always been the smooth talker and that is something she has brought up to me several times. "You've always been good with words. I can't trust you."
[/quote] I did want to share a line that I think I know how to take but wanted your take: I don't know when I will feel enough to say I love you to you or really kiss you. I'm finally acknowledging my hurt and anger. Let me work through this. All I have are those feelings. I need time to get to the good feelings. I don't know how long this will take. But it will take time.
I look at it as a good thing in that we both acknowledge what we both want. It will just take time.
Anyone else?? [/quote]
I think that this is a very positive thing. I would break down if I got an email from my W saying this. It is a long process but I have no doubt you are on the right track. The rest of us are still in the trial and error phase.
