Thank you so much for your support Mila, Twink and CW.
Little does H realize I would trade it all for the chance to try and rebuild our M and put our family back together.
I told the L that H would be angry over what he will have to pay. L said H will just have to accept it. He said he will have to realize that it is not you doing this to him, it is what the law in this state says he has to give you. That said, it will just make H further resent ever having married and having kids with me.