Thank you. I will try to change name. I am hopeful today. He spent the evening with me and we ended up making love. However, as soon as we were done, he started to run out the door. I called him on that behavior and said that I was not just a recepticle..I was a person with feelings and that it was NOT ok to treat me that way. We fought a bit, but kept things fairly civil and that progressed into a long talk. He ran some errands and came back and hung out with me most of the evening. Less talking..lots of cuddling. I told him could leave or stay..his choice. No pressure. He chose to leave, I did not protest. He said he still needs space and NEEDS to know that I can begin to trust him again...and that he loves me and wants it to work out. I am hopeful, and am going to keep working on me.
