Well here I am now. Moved over from DBD

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You are absolutely right figgeroni.

But I have already put my foot down with regard to talking to her X and old boyfriends etc and she has agreed to not do it.

Or at least she does not do it while Im around. She knows I have trust issues because of my XW so it really is up to her to maintain the silence. We actually broke up because she forgot to tell me her X was in town and she met with him. I had to impress upon her the fact that not telling me was the same as lying to me since I asked her to tell me when he was in town etc.

If she doesn't respect my boundry I will no longer be her lover. I set that boundry to protect myself and she is respecting it right now. She has given me a similar boundry that I am respecting for her so it's give and take.

We will see how this pans out. Sometimes she thinks I am an insecure A-hole because of this but she does in fact respect me.