Advice... stay focused on being upbeat and the new you when you see your W tomorrow night. Stay focused on what you have learned here. Do NOT bring up the R.

Sounds like you have seen your first baby steps iw. Keep workin man. You are dong just fine!

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce